It's Bonfire Night in the British Isles tonight, or "burn the effigie of the catholic guy", or, most commonly, "blow up your hands and face with fireworks night". This means it's about to get really noisy (as it did yesterday, only worse), and I have a very nervous cat hiding both under a chair AND table. Poor Crowley!
I am, apparently, the only person that finds it a tad bizarre that the British celebrate the not blowing of the Houses of Parliament with the blowing of things, sometimes with terrible results. But then, there are so many things I don't understand about the British...
Coming home today from some local foraging (i.e., finding food worth buying at our local Somerfields), it occurred to me that we always seem to go into hibernation mode in Winter in this country. This used to bother me, depress me even, but what Alan (my former supervisor and Cisco's supervisor now) said holds true - we built a cocoon for us, full of things we love, and where we are most comfortable in. We love having friends over, but (I, at least) have no patience for going out at night. I'm not naturally a recluse - when I'm in Portugal I'm out everyday doing this and that, even if it's just coffee with friends - but the combination of early sunsets (it's starting around 4 now, and it'll just get worse) and poorly lit streets (another one of those things that I simply don't understand) makes it so that I'm very happy to stay in. I have no real expectations that my jewellery business will support me (I'd have to sell 100 items priced at £10 per month to make enough money), but working from home always seemed like a wonderful thing to me. I just wish I had a way to do it.
My point in all of this is that I really don't care anymore that I feel happier when I'm home. I may not have a house like a lot of the beautiful people whose blogs I read, but everyone who comes here seems to love it, and it's very "us". I'd still like to move down to Didsbury, to in the middle of cafes and restaurants and shops, but my house is still my castle, and it makes me happy. Plus, we have a lovely cat. What more can I ask for?











